You know Matthew 18:20. But did you know Jesus said it while teaching what to do when a brother sins against you?
20 For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them.”
Matthew 18:20, World English Bible
The story around it
Two or three. It is about the smallest gathering there can be: a kitchen table, a hospital corridor. Jesus says it is enough.
Jewish teaching has a striking echo of this. In the Mishnah, usually dated around the year 200, Rabbi Hananiah ben Teradion says that when two people sit together and words of Torah pass between them, the Shekhinah, the presence of God, rests among them.
Jesus goes further. Where two or three gather in his name, the one who is present is himself: “there I am in the middle of them”.
The rabbi’s saying was written down after the time of Jesus, so it cannot tell us what his hearers already knew. It does show how a Jewish teacher could speak of God drawing near to the smallest circle. And it shows how much Jesus is claiming about who he is.
Background from outside the Bible. The sources are listed below.
The moment
The disciples had come to Jesus with a question about rank: “Who then is greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven?” His answer fills the whole chapter, and it turns their question upside down. He speaks of children, of a shepherd who leaves ninety-nine sheep to look for one, and then of what to do when a brother does wrong.
So these words are for the people who will have to lead when he is gone. He is preparing them for the day a friendship breaks inside the community, and telling them they will not face that day alone.
What stands around it
The “two or three” first appear four verses earlier, as witnesses: “at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established”. The verse just before speaks of two who agree about what they ask.
What happened next
Peter heard all this and asked the question it raises: how often must he forgive a brother who sins against him? Seven times? Jesus answered, “I don’t tell you until seven times, but, until seventy times seven.” Then he told of a servant forgiven a debt he could never repay, who went out and seized a fellow servant by the throat over a small one.
After Jesus was gone, his followers learned to be the two or three. When Herod held Peter in prison, “many were gathered together and were praying” in the house of Mary, the mother of John Mark. Peter, set free, knocked at the gate. The servant girl Rhoda knew his voice, and she did not open the gate “for joy”, but ran in to tell the others. They told her she was out of her mind.
They also learned the harder part. When a fierce dispute broke out over whether Gentile believers had to be circumcised, the apostles and elders gathered in Jerusalem, talked it through at length, and sent a letter that said, “it seemed good to the Holy Spirit, and to us”. In Antioch the believers read it and rejoiced.
Not every quarrel ended so well. Paul and Barnabas fell out over that same Mark, and “the contention grew so sharp that they separated from each other.” The Bible does not say how Paul and Mark came back together. But in later letters that carry Paul’s name, Mark is with him again, and Paul asks for him: “he is useful to me for service.”
How people have read it
Most believers know this verse as a comfort: Jesus is present in the smallest prayer meeting. That reading is old, and it is loved.
In the passage itself the promise has a sharper edge. The two or three are people trying to put something right: a wrong that was done, a brother who will not listen. Some churches have therefore heard in these verses the authority Jesus gives his gathered people to decide hard matters together.
Both readings rest on the same sentence. He does not wait for a crowd. When even two or three act in his name, he is in the middle of it.
Who has argued over it
Early in the third century, in Carthage in North Africa, the Christian writer Tertullian drew a bold conclusion from this promise. Even where no clergy are present, he wrote, believers can be a church: But where three are, a church is, albeit they be laics. Laics are lay people.
Some decades later Cyprian, the bishop of Carthage, saw the danger in that kind of reading. Groups were breaking away from the church and claiming the promise for their own small gatherings. He would not let them have it: How can two or three be assembled together in Christ's name, who, it is evident, are separated from Christ and from His Gospel?
The Church of England built the promise into its daily prayer. In the Book of Common Prayer, the Prayer of Saint Chrysostom at Morning Prayer reminds God that he has promised to grant the requests of two or three gathered in his name.
A church of three, or a warning against going it alone: the same small number has carried both ever since.
Background from outside the Bible. The sources are listed below.
What the context adds
In its place the promise is that Jesus stands with his followers in the hard work of correcting and restoring someone. Many Christians also apply it to any small gathering. The passage itself is about winning back a brother and agreeing in prayer about it.
What it means for you
Is there someone you no longer speak to? A brother or sister, a friend, someone at church who hurt you, or someone you hurt? This verse was first spoken for that.
Jesus’ way is quiet before it is public. Go to the person alone first, before you tell anyone else. If that fails, take one or two others along, not to win an argument but for the goal Jesus names: “you have gained back your brother.” He does not promise that the other person will listen; the passage plans for the case where they do not. And when Peter asked for a limit on forgiveness, he did not get one.
You also do not need a crowd to pray about it. Find one person you trust and pray together, about the friendship that broke or the hard decision in front of you. Paul and Mark are a reminder that a break does not have to be the end of the story.
If you do not share this faith, the passage still holds something worth trying: speak to the person, not about them, and go gently before you go loudly.
Other verses that say it too
Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted.
Galatians 6:1. Paul describes the work Jesus gives the two or three: “restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness”. The aim is the person, not the verdict.
Brothers, if any among you wanders from the truth and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins.
James 5:19-20. James ends his letter with the goal of Matthew 18: when a brother wanders, “someone turns him back”.
Then those who feared the LORD spoke one with another; and the LORD listened and heard, and a book of memory was written before him for those who feared the LORD and who honored his name.
Malachi 3:16. In Malachi, when faithful people “spoke one with another”, the LORD “listened and heard”. Long before Jesus, a small circle talking together was enough for God to take notice.
teaching them to observe all things that I commanded you. Behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen.
Matthew 28:20. At the end of the same Gospel the risen Jesus gives the promise again, now for the whole task he leaves his disciples: “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”
Why we say this
Bible passages this page rests on, in the World English Bible:
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